Relax, Rocket. Your approach and tactics are more powerful than a cup of espresso with a Red Bull chaser. Women prefer to be courted, but all the texting, emailing, calling and jumping along yelling “Meet me for drinks! Meet me for drinks!” is really a major turnoff The next time, keep it subtle – almost like you are not even asking her out at all.
Many men may get much too physical in the initial encounter also, that is an instantaneous turnoff for a few women, especially if they aren’t taking into consideration the guy. Keep carefully the tactile hands to yourself.