For thousands of years, men have had to go out and find their lovers – actually, way back before we became evolved men , we just went out, bopped them on the head and took them home. We have recently received lots of e-mail from men who proclaim: “Why should we go after them?” Fair enough. So you want her to come to you? Ask and you shall receive. Here are the top 10 ways to keep her attention once you get it.