The most effective methods to start a conversation would be to ask her opinion on something. This is effective with sets of women especially, and with a subject they would want to discuss. Fashion, relationships , celebrity gossip: the topics are endless. The main thing to remember would be to make it appear to be you are actually thinking about getting someone’s opinion. My friends and I disagree on something, it is possible to help answer this maybe. How come ’80s fashion back coming? What’s going on with that?” If the question enough is engaging, women shall jump at the chance to answer.