Rekindling AN ANTIQUE Flame

Hey Out to Sea,
I doubt this person misunderstood your intentions when the two of you decided to go out. Don’t worry, you’re not in the friendzone. Which isn’t some touch upon her part on your own desirability, or lack thereof.
Possible reasons your actual-date converted into a dancing-to-Otis-Redding-in-an-awkward-circle-with-her-friends date:
She thinks you have potential and really wants to vet you before her friends.
Night and she just thought it could be fun in the event that you came She really likes Motown.
She feels weird about going on a one-on-one date with someone she’s just met. Louis CK highlights that there surely is no greater threat to women than men.” And he’s right. It requires major chutzpah for a female to day a guy she’s just met. This may be her way of learning you better before she really feels comfortable (or safe) being alone with you. Does that sound grim? It really is. It’s something women need to take into account, and you also don’t. Thank patriarchy for that.
It’s probably a bit from each of the above.
Your primary focus when going on a romantic date with someone ought never to be to obtain lucky,” if ought to be to celebrate and move on to know them better. Night Come Motown, if you decide following a few drinks to use a Little Tenderness,” you’ll most just alienate her and her friends probably.
So: Venture out, have an enjoyable experience, don’t sweat the dancing thing. She already thinks you’re cute or she wouldn’t have invited you. Be social, speak to her friends, buy a round or two of drinks, and resist the urge to really get your mack on. Appreciate the fact, by seeing how she acts individuals she hangs out with regularly round, you can find an even more rounded appreciation of who this woman is than you’ll if you both were alone.
If you still like her by the finish of the night time time, and she still likes you, tell her it’s your turn to take her out the next time, and plan the date-date you originally envisioned. Don’t worry on the details. Escape there, shake your tailfeathers , and see where things lead.
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