Married couples love to tell people they are still spontaneous. It’s like when people tell you they don’t take crap or that they are not someone you would like to mess with. They are full of crap. Spontaneous people don’t talk about how spontaneous they’re because they’re too busy going places and living a complete life. Married folks have a compromised and diluted notion of spontaneity. They will have spontaneous ideas that involve months of planning then, calendar juggling and last second cancellations that become we will do that soon.” They’d want to hop a flight for a weekend visit to Vegas, but that money will be better allocated to the bills or putting money into investing in a bigger house. Spontaneity results in a huge amount of compromise also. Compromise sucks.