score with (sincere) compliments
Do you compliment your girlfriend out of habit? For instance, when you pick her up to go for dinner, do you find yourself exclaiming, “You look great,” every single time? If so, then you are suffering from knee-jerk compliment syndrome — a dangerous habit indeed. Break the cycle of dull compliments now while you still have a woman in your life.
What you need to do is vary the routine, which is of course, the secret to keeping a woman happy. Mix it up every now and then by paying attention to the details. Her hair, her jewelry, her manicure, her eye shadow — try to keep track of changes and let her know when you spot something different.
Is that a new top she has on? You should know the answer right away. Be on alert, observe everything and file key information away to be used at opportune moments.
focus on more than her body
Now and then you may want to compliment her on something other than her appearance. There is nothing wrong with praising the physical but like everything else, there is room for abuse. Ration the booty comments or else risk being associated with men who focus on nothing but sex. Even if all you think about is hitting it, do not under any circumstance let her find out. Do not give her the chance to consider for one second that your motives are insincere. Even if she is a sex fiend, you would do well to slow your roll in order to gain her respect.
Break the habit of initiating sex all the time by letting her take the lead, even if it means missing out on some play every so often. Do not have her thinking that all you want to do every time you get together is get it on. The pressure to perform will get to her and she will dread going home with you at the end of the night.
The change you need to make is to focus on intangible qualities like her intelligence, her opinions, her ideas, and her values. Talk to her about them and compliment her every now and again on something she says or does. She will then assume that she has value beyond that of a sexual object and in an ironic twist, you will get more sex. Of course, if your motive is to get more sex, you will fail. Women always seem to catch on to that before long.
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