4. Follow Up
So the date is finished, and the what’s next?” question looms. Setup date went well, there are specific base-level decencies to off check up on, like making sure your date safely gets home. Offering to walk her to her car or apartment is really a kind gesture really, but don’t push it if she says you no longer require or hover around expectantly as soon as you reach her door.
If, from your perspective, the date didn’t go well, reject her but honestly kindly. Tell her it turned out nice to meet her nevertheless, you didn’t feel a web link; so when the date went however well from your perspective, not from hers, respect her to inform you the same thing. Neither of you need to list off the ways you fell lacking each other’s expectations, just impart an easy and gentle no thanks” and keep it moving.
If it went well on both sides (woohoo!) another date likely seems, that’s great, but don’t become complacent – you’ll be able to still kill the vibe having an unsolicited dick pic or jerky communication style. Don’t get embroiled in the clichéd, Rules -y idea you can guarantee your date’s continued interest by feigning indifference, and do what feels natural to suit your needs. If the date went well so you feel like texting her immediately, then take action. If she’s defer by your enthusiasm, she’s not the main one for you.
5. Remember, She’s Not From Another Planet
Hopefully you read all the the above tips and thought, No sht, that’s the way anyone would want a date to treat them.” Congratulations! You’ve hit upon the feminist agenda, which is no more and no less than to be treated as fully human. Stale stereotypes about feminism still linger in our collective consciousness, but your date is unlikely to be seeking anything more audacious than respect, understanding and empathy for her gender; that’s why tips for dating feminist women double as hints on how to treat any person with respect and kindness.
4. Follow Up