Couples Holidays

Here’s a tip: if you are planning for a trip away come early july with your cherished one, steer clear of the news. ‘Two thirds of couples argue on christmas!’ screams one headline. ‘One in four will row by the 3rd day!’ bellows another. ‘52% of couples can’t acknowledge a destination!’ screeches yet another. Nothing gets you in to the summer holiday spirit compared to the British press, eh?
Now, I thought holidays were made to bring out the very best in you. You understand: provide a possiblity to leave troubles behind and revel in a blissful couple of days of sun, sea and sex, where in fact the only decision you will need make is San Miguel or Sangria ? Apparently not. 90% of couples I understand tell me they’ve rowed when on christmas together for over 10 days. But, they always constitute eventually and find yourself having an incredible time. Well, in addition to the few that split up instead. That is unfortunate
Here is the thing about going away as a couple of; it’s ridiculously intense, regardless of how long or short you’ve been going out together. We all can remember car journeys as a child surely, sitting on the trunk seat and sharing awkward side glances with siblings as your parents row over misplaced directions and who forgot to shut the upstairs window. And who is able to honestly say they’ve had a completely fuss-free holiday with a girlfriend?
I could totally empathise with couples which have broken up during or simply following a holiday together. It’s make or break. But the ones that survive come stronger and much more in love back. Seriously.
As your average City Girl, I panic when beyond your M25 for too much time slightly, but am all for a mini-break with a fella and also have a good few good memories of these, mainly involving days in nights and bed getting pissed in country pubs where, much to the embarrassment of my former beau, I’d inevitably patronise the neighborhood folk (‘wow, it’s so CHEAP in the countryside.night bus ‘ ‘No? Are you currently joking?’). We argued never, but by the 3rd day we were prepared to come home and any more would’ve undoubtedly led to a row.
This is the key reason why I’ve avoided long-haul trips in relationships. I’m scared a bloke will irritate me by getting sun burnt or something, I’ll snap and he’ll see what I’m enjoy. Because that’s what holidays do; uncover our true personalities. No wonder two thirds of couples argue on christmas. It’s the couple – just both – alone, in unfamiliar surroundings where anything could fail. Of course, it is the charm and excitement of any occasion actually, but as a couple of it may be overwhelming.
“You need to do it in early stages in the relationship,” my cousin asserted when she was asked by me opinion. “Which means you don’t spend your time on a relationship that’s going nowhere. Any occasion together will demonstrate whether you truly enjoy each other’s company.”
Another girlfriend disagrees; “No chance! You continue holiday well in to the relationship, when you’ve already reached know each other so that you could predict the bad points.'”
Both fair points. But, tiffs, tantrums and the rare break-up aside, couples holidays are awesome pretty. What better solution to spend quality time than in the magic and romance of a foreign country? And, hello, you are not only watching your girlfriend flounce around in a bikini all day long, but you’re guaranteed fourteen days of sex (Sangria and sun will be the ultimate aphrodisiac).

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