Be APPEALING TO Young Women (21bc9a0)

I was prepared for the normal challenges you face when you’re a younger woman dating an older man, but nothing could have prepped me for the judgements that strangers felt they had the right to make about my boyfriend and I to both of our faces,” says Jasmine, 26. One of the first times we were out at a bar together, the male bartender hit on me when my date went to the bathroom. He leaned in and said, ‘I know he has more money than I do, but I can do things to you that he’s too old for if you know what I mean.’ I was so angry that I couldn’t speak. When my boyfriend came back I told him what happened. I expected him to say something to the bartender or to at least be as upset as I was, but instead he told me that he was sorry, and that this was going to happen, but that people couldn’t let other’s ignorance block the way of our relationship. He was right, it just happened multiple times from then on night. Dating a younger woman means both of you have to have a thick skin rather than value anyone’s opinion however your own.”

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